Shy in Front of the Camera? Here’s How to Feel Confident During Your Engagement Shoot
Feeling camera-shy during your engagement session is more common than you think. One of the best ways to ease those nerves is by having a quick chat with your photographer before the session starts. It gives you time to connect, ask questions and feel at ease.
What Do I Wear to My Session?
Wearing something that makes you feel good can do wonders. Choosing comfortable outfits that complement each other’s style usually looks best in photos. If you have a theme, work with that as these photos are here to stay.
How can I relax during posing?
This is about capturing your love, not posing perfectly. Avoid looking directly at the camera unless your photographer prompts you. Focus on each other instead, and allow those natural, beautiful moments to shine through.
Engagement Poses for Shy Couples
Holding hands is an easy, grounding gesture that helps calm nerves and brings you back to the moment. If you start to feel overwhelmed, it’s okay to take a quick break. Your session should feel relaxed, not rushed. Charlotte and Taylor were shy but we took one step at a time to achieve the lovely photos you are looking at.
During this engagement session at Hatfield House, Charlotte and Taylor simply walked the grounds together while I followed discreetly. We didn’t over-pose or force anything. They held hands, chatted, laughed, and let the space work its magic. Gentle cues like “look left,” “smirk,” or “lean into each other” were all it took.
Poses that should be considered if you’re a shy couple:
| For her | For him |
| Flicking your hair | Hands in your pockets |
| Wrapping your arms around him | Adjust your cuffs |
| Melting into his side | Side glances at your fiancée |
| Grabbing his hand | Holding your fiancée from behind or by her side |
| Looking up at him | Leaning on the wall |
How much does an Engagement Session cost?
When planning an engagement session, costs can include professional hair and makeup, additional outfits, and photographer fees. In the UK, depending on the photographer’s experience, you might expect to spend from £300 to £450 for an engagement and couples photoshoot in London and Hertfordshire.
When to have an Engagement Session?
For the most flattering lighting, consider having your engagement session during shortly after sunrise or just before sunset. The light is soft, warm and enhances photos beautifully. Also, early mornings tend to be quieter, providing a more relaxed atmosphere for your shoot. Choosing a location that holds personal meaning to you both, like Hatfield House, can make the experience even more memorable.
Ready to book your engagement session? Check out my Engagement Session Instagram for more inspiration. If you enjoyed this blog post, ‘Engagement Session: How to Pose as a Shy Couple’, why not read another one?😉